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Netizens slam woman for buying ‘only’ an Oppo phone for her helper

SINGAPORE: A local TikTok user went viral this week after she posted that she had gotten her family’s longtime helper a new phone. However, her videos may have gone viral NOT for the reasons she intended.

On Feb 6 (Monday), TikToker Laurel (@lingzhi_xo) posted a video showing herself buying an Oppo phone for the helper who has been working for their family for the past 13 years.

“Her phone recently broke down so I decided to gift her a new phone,” she wrote in the video, and captioned it “2nd mum!! #thankful #helperinsingapore”

@lingzhi_xo

2nd mum!! #thankful #helperinsingapore

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While the video has been viewed over 338,000 times, not every commenter had positive things to say.

Some questioned why Laurel’s helper was wearing a uniform, why she was being appreciated only after 13 years, why a budget phone was bought for her instead of a more expensive one, and so on.

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Some even unkindly accused Laurel of buying the helper a gift “for content” or “for show” only.

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Even though she didn’t have to, the TikTok user quickly followed her original video up with another one that answered the comment about why their helper wears a uniform.

She captioned it, “Replying to @KenleeW207 She likes to wear this top because it has many pockets! We got her many new clothes but she doesn’t like to wear them when she’s working.”

@lingzhi_xo

Replying to @KenleeW207 She’s likes to wear this top because it has many pockets! We got her many new clothes but she doesn’t like to wear them when she’s working.

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And in a third video from Friday (Feb 10), she addressed other negative commenters.

@lingzhi_xo

Replying to @Carninarbae

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“My intention was to spread some positivity, and remind people around me that amid celebrating the festive season, we can also show some appreciation [towards others] and spread love.

I saw it as a heartening moment to share,” and added that “Super Mia,” the helper, has a reason why she’s worked for Laurel and her family for a very long time.

“I feel it’s not about how (big the gift is) but about how consistently you show appreciation to those who are always there for you.”

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